People have been asking me why i dont date. Well First i am in the Philippines and Transpinay here have a hard time dealing with the machismo mentality of the Filipino men. Somehow they think that dating transpinays make them less of a man and sad to say that this make them regard transpinays as someone to fuck (if they really need one) or someone that can be a source of extra money (if they are desperate) Its really a sad reality and even sadder to say that my fellow sisters, desperately fuel this kind of mentality by giving in to the whims of their boyfriends.

But it is a different scenario outside this country. Foreigners regard transgenders as someone hot, amazing and lovely that they would treat their princesses royally. As one friend told me. "Breakaway from your environment, explore and you will live an easy life, affluent even" and believe me, i've seen how men pursue someone like me.

But as always, there is a downside on this, Men are naturally predictable, They would promise you the whole world, promise better life but most just wants to fulfill their sexual TG fantasy. TG CHASERS are these men that actually chases after TGs and they will really hunt tg's, shemales or ladyboys. (shemales or ladyboys are regarded as prostitutes and have sexual connotation that any respectable TG would frown when someone calls them that)

Now someone argued that if men chase TG's particularly Pre-opt tg's (PRE-OPT means they havent gone through sexual re-assignment surgery - simpler terms, they still have the extra body part that a woman shouldnt have) This makes these men GAY.

As i talk to other tg's and men who likes them. it is not much about the penis that they are after, it is the person that they want and as part of loving (pleasuring) their woman. aside from the normal sex routine, there are extra things done in the bedroom. and this doesnt make them less of a man or nothin about it makes Tg's less of a woman.

Now. having all this knowledge, why dont i use my lovely sexuality and have a better love life and life in general?

Simple. I know im smart and am a great person, which means i dont have to resort to my sexuality to achieve the life that i wanted and personally, using someone for my advantage contradicts with my values. but hey im not saying i would totally ignore any help given to me, im just sayin. i wont fulfill anyone's tg fantasy just because he helped me.

Now am i dating or not? i dunno, perhaps i am perhaps im not. c'mon let's be honest, who gives a damn fuck!